The next couple of posts will revolve around a little time away from our house as a family. We were able to take the girls out of the small town we live in to Chicago. Oh the things you can learn when you travel with anyone, much less when you travel with family.
We are also trying to sell our current house. To prepare our 3-year-old for an impending move I’ve talked with her about the difference between a house and a home. I never realized how the talk about the difference changed her thought process in such a beautiful way. The concept is as simple as I could put it. Any building you can live in is a “house”, but a home is where we all are (mom, dad, and the girls). I was using the description to show how wherever we live is our home as long as we are together. My hope was this would make a new house transition a little easier.
When we arrived in the Chicago area the first step was getting everyone into our hotel room. Then, my little quirk, I walked out and filled the ice bucket. I did that alone. When I came back to the room our 3-year-old said rather loud, “WELCOME HOME!!!” It felt like I was away for hours and not the couple of minutes it took to fill an ice bucket.
My wife, unknowingly, corrected her, “We’re in a hotel room, not home.” Our 3-year-old wasn’t phased. (Which was a surprise too.) Instead she waited until she could catch me all alone and whispered, as if we were sharing a secret, “Mom doesn’t know? You need to tell her when we are all together we are home.”
Cute on it’s own, right? But then she took it the next step. You see we stayed at the same hotel I stayed at on and off for over a year working on a project. She knew this was the hotel I stayed at because we made a big deal about staying where daddy stays when he goes to Chicago. That was when she said something I never expected.
“You stay here a lot. But it wasn’t OUR home until we came here with you.” Then I got a huge hug.
I guess she hugged too tight. Because she caused a few tears to sneak out of my eyes.
She really got the message. I don’t think I did until that moment.